A little over a week ago, we were discussing Bill Maher’s latest “New Rules,” in which Bill suggested we should merge with China. TomCat suggested we would be better off with Canada. I suggested that Australia might be a better fit, to which Animae kindly responded, “Absolutely.” I say that it was kind of her because, although there are many wonderful things abut Australia, I was not thinking of any of those when I made the comment. I was thinking of what I had been reading about their off-shore refugee camps. In fact, though, Australia has many issues similar to issues we see in the U.S., most of which can be bundled into “Republicans.” Called, I gather, “Conservatives” there.
So when Lona sent the “Gang of Five (TC, Nameless, Squatch, herself, and me)” an email about an Anglican priest in Gosford, New South Wales, who is putting up signage at his church which sound like things Jesus might actually say (and getting a lot of flak, also not unlike Jesus), I read it with interest. Lona had seen a news item on him on ABC (Oz Broadcasting Co.), which we in the US and Canada can’t view. But I looked on YouTube and found numerous videos, including a TED talk, which we can view. I picked this four-year-old one to embed rather than the TED talk because it is short and kind of introductory (and has a LOT of signs).
Father Rod Bower is the vicar (or pastor or parish priest or maybe some other term, depending on your tradition) of Gosford (St. Mary’s) Anglican Church, which is, as already mentioned, in NSW, Australia. In 2013, he decided to use the signboard outside the church – the one that letters can be put in and taken out to change the message – for something perhaps more important than announcing the dates and times of services.
It was a personal experience which move him enough to take this step – you might say it radicalized him.
He’d been called to deliver last rites, and the dying man’s family kept his male partner out of the room.
“They were anxious I would be judgmental of this man, and it really pulled me up that they could experience marginalisation because of me and because of what I represent,” Father Bower told [ABC] 7.30.
He returned to his church and put up a sign saying, “DEAR CHRISTIANS, SOME PPL ARE GAY. GET OVER IT. LOVE GOD”.
The sign went viral on social media and Father Bower realised he had a platform.
It’s brought him – well, it kind of reminds me of a verse attributed to Jesus: “Anyone who gives up father and mother, sister and brother, for my sake will receive hundreds, thousands, of fathers, mothers, sisters, and brothers, and persecution too.” He has tens of thousands of followers on social media. And he has death threats.
He’s emotional when he speaks about a serious threat before the Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras in 2014, and the conversation he had with his wife Kerry Bower before he set off to take part in the parade.
“We talked about there [being] not just my life at risk here, but also young LGBTI people are taking their own lives because of their experience of marginalisation,” he said.
More death threats followed, and Ms Bower says they both wondered whether they should stop being so vocal.
“We thought, what are we doing? We have children, we have grandchildren, this is crazy, nothing is worth this,” she said.
“But Rod said, ‘No, I can’t stop.’ And I kind of went, ‘I get it, we can’t stop because someone has to challenge this stuff’.”
He originally planned to focus on just three issues – but other things have gotten his attention too. I understand that perfectly. When one sees something – sometimes one just has to say something. Even if that something is not in one’s own nation. One of the biggest responses was to a sign more addressed to the United States than to Australia:
That one made waves all over the United States with those who saw it.
Father Bower has just published a book (literally just published: Amazon posted it just yesterday, and so far, only to Kindle) called Outspoken: Because Justice Is Always Social. But there are other vendors who have it in print.
Speaking as a citizen of the nation which can boast Jim Wallis, John Pavlovitz, and the Rev. Dr. William J. Barber III, I would be delighted – and humbled – to clasp hands across the sea with the nation which lays claim to Father Rod Bower.
Cross posted to Care2 HERE.
11 Responses to “Outspoken”
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Such a kind, caring and compassionate man/priest.
Kudos to Father Bower for his assertive actions. We need many more of him, in this world now, to speak with kindness and love for others, no matter who they are.
“Joining our Hearts to the Disappeared.”
GREAT post, Joanne, thank you! h/t to Lona too!
Great piece, JD.
Jesus always got along fine with “sinners”, but he could not stand religions hypocrites.
Thank you for the honourable mention JD but my ‘Absolutely’ wasn’t only a referral to the positive similarities in our countries, unlike Canada, both US & Oz are currently ruled by the religious-far-right, who are ridiculously called The Liberal Party here!
WOW a Rev like Father Rod could possibly get me entering a church!
i’ll be on the lookout for his book – ‘Outspoken: Because Justice Is Always Social’ thanx Lona for the intro to this great man!
We do think a lot alike – I mean you and I, although it probably applies equally to Oz and the US. I surely wish we could get over our national gun fetish … you have showed us the way but so many here won’t believe it.
Love someone who practices what they preach … literally!
(Didn’t realize that’s how Oz folks spell our “immunize”)
Oz, Canada, and the UK all have their own spellings … or maybe I should say they have the Queen’s spellings and we are the ones who have our own.
We need more people like him, especially here and now.
Glad to know of his presence in your/our midst!
What a wonderful job, Joanne! Thank you so much for giving wonderful Father Rod Bower his due. Besides the the most excellent writing I could never rival, you gave this servant of the Christian God the admiration he deserved in that specific capacity. Something that I, a staunch atheist, could never have given him without becoming glib. From a humanitarian point of view Rod Bower deserves all our admiration, whatever our Weltanschaung. Rod Bower speaks from a great social, and humanitarian heart and reaches us all.
Thank you. I’m overcome.