Experts in autocracies have pointed out that it is, unfortunately, easy to slip into normalizing the tyrant, hence it is important to hang on to outrage. These incidents which seem to call for the efforts of the Greek Furies (Erinyes) to come and deal with them will, I hope, help with that. Even though there are many more which I can't include. As a reminder, though no one really knows how many there were supposed to be, the three names we have are Alecto, Megaera, and Tisiphone. These roughly translate as "unceasing," "grudging," and "vengeful destruction."
I'll start with a case in which no one was physically hurt, yet it just gets under my skin. The parents of a child, now a fifth grader at a different school, but then a fourth grader at Katherine Gallegos Elementary in Los Lunas, NM, are in a legal battle with the District because, they say, a fourth grade teacher humiliated their child so badly they had to home school him.
Last fall, then 9-year-old Diego Ortega did everything he could do to get out of going to class at Katherine Gallegos Elementary.
“He was starting to make excuses, my head hurts, my stomach hurts,” Diego’s mom, Alexandria Lente, said. “Crying in the morning, not wanting to go to school.”
His fourth grade science teacher gave a talk in class about bullying. At the end of his presentation, he asked each student to write an essay about Diego "being a bully."
There are some quotes from the essays in my linked article. His own essay says he feels his own teacher is bullying him . When his mother went to pick him up from school that day, he was in tears. It doesn't appear he told her the whole story at the time, because he then started to try to avoid school.
When she did get the story and went to confront the principal, she was told it was a learning assignment and was “OK.”
The current legal issue is less about the actual incident but about the months and legal fees the family spent trying to get copies of the essays legally under a freedom of information request, while the District dug in its heels, in violation of the law. The teacher is not named in the suit nor in any complaint.
In one of my sources for this story, I left a comment, "I don't care if the kid is an ax murderer, you DO NOT get the rest of the class to write an essay about him/her." To which someone responded, "Let's all feel sorry for ax murderers." I thought that royally missed the point. If a kid is a danger to the other kids, on whatever level, you deal with it for the safety of the class. But if you have other kids write about one kid – well, it's a learning activity all right. What they learn is that it's perfectly OK to gang up on someone they don't like. This is destructive and demeaning to the entire class, not just one person. I find it unacceptable. What do you think, Megaera?
This next story actually shocked me. It happened on December 21, but it took over a week and a half for it to get into news sources I see, so I didn't have it last week. I've been trying to follow up, but there doesn't seem to be much updating happening. The newest news I could find is that the autopsy took four hours and the results are expected about a week from now. The investigation is ongoing.
About seven in the evening, the concealed figure you see on the right of the picture entered the convenience store where David Wicks, the gentleman you see on the left, was working. News reports say that the suspect – I'll call him that – or her – how can you tell? – "sprayed" a flammable liquid around the store and onto Mr. Wicks, but according the the Sheriff's office, "splashed" might be a better description – it appeared to be an open container. Regardless, the suspect then set fire to Mr. Wicks and the store, and left – on a bicycle.
When authorities arrived, Mr. Wicks was only able to answer one question – "Was this intentional?" – to which he nodded "Yes." He died en route to the hospital.
This was in a small town – well, not really a town – an unincorporated area, pop. 3154 in 2010 – Burney, CA, in Shasta County. northeast of Redding. Mr. Wicks was liked by everyone – or so everyone thought. He was 54, and leaves behind his wife, Sonja, who also worked at the store.
They are calling that hooded figure in the photo "the suspect," but since no one knows who – or what – that figure might be, I don't see that there really is a suspect. But just on the facts we do have, it looks like vengeful destruction to me. Tisiphone, maybe you can find something out.
But wait – there's more. In Texas, the Texas Education Agency's handling of assigning children to receive specialized instruction has come under fire for denial of Special Ed to children with such disabilities as dyslexia, ADHD, and speech impairments. But at one time, at least, it was fairly automatic to grand Special Ed assistance to Down syndrome children. Not in Texas. Not now.
[Melissa Ferrell]'s … son Sam had Down syndrome. He did not always speak in complete sentences. He could not hold a pencil. He had trouble going to the bathroom.
And yet the Austin Independent School District was claiming that he did not qualify for special education services.
"Specialized instruction is not needed," the evaluation report said.
She had expected to be fighting for there to be some inclusion in the regular classroom for Sam, who, like so many Down syndrome patients, is "unreservedly friendly." She had not expected to need to get a lawyer and spend a year convincing the school district to provide "robust services."
Other school districts are also denying special services to kids who would appear to obviously need them. In Fort Bend, Evan Seargeant has binaural moderate-to-severe hearing loss. What he doesn't have is special ed. Oh, yeah, and he also doesn't have the good grades he used to have in California, where he was getting special ed assistance. Sophia Salehi is legally blind. She cannot read anything more than three inches from her face – and that is with the best glasses she can get. This time it was the Houston ISD which turned her down for special ed.
The article I link to is one of a series of six numbered and two unnumbered articles, which should suggest that this is part of an unceasing problem. Good luck, Alecto.
One last reference I am not going to cover in detail comes to us from McCrorystan, where, as the Fartfuhrer and the other Republicans were plotting their coup – well, it sounds like the beginning of a bar joke, doesn't it – "A crying grandmother, a breast-feeding mother, and Santa Claus walked into a" – State House. Needless to say, they were all arrested, along with an unrevealed number (but, over the course of the week, more than 100) of others. In an unusual twist, the protesters were all thanked profusely by the administrative personnel who were doing the booking (and of course thanked them profusely in return.) Most of the charges have been dismissed since. Thank God.
The Furies and I will be back.
Cross posted to Care2 at http://www.care2.com/news/member/101612212/4029941
6 Responses to “Everyday Erinyes #58”
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Magaera: This is so wrong on so many levels. The teacher had no right/business in calling out Diego in class for other students to write this essay. The teacher needs to be disciplined, and given the opportunity to resign, and if he doesn't….terminate him. He has no business being in a classroom. The Principal needs to be advised that all of her students at this school are all worthy, and learning in a safe environment. Obviously, she's not doing her job, Get her too, Magaera.
Tisiphone: My deepest sympathy to the Wicks family and community. I sure hope they find the POS who did this!
Alecto: I am sure that investigations are needed, for these children to receive the attention, care and education that they deserve. All of the IEP's that are part of these students' files, (information), outline the support that is required for collaborative teaching. This is very disappointing to read that these kids are not getting the services that they need. I would advise those higher ups in Sp.Ed. who are making these decisions that the ADA would be very interested in learning about these (and many more) cases. Absolutely despicable actions, and a most heartbreaking story (s).
'Not going into detail': O.M.G.!!!!! Citizens of this county have a right to assemble and know what is going on at the local level, and government. omg. This is awfull!! Glad most of the charges were dropped. (Should have NEVER happened in the first place).
We have a hard, hard road ahead of us, Furies. Please protect those who have compassion, love, and empathy, from those who have none of those qualities within themselves.
Thank you, Joanne for post.
Thanks Pat.
Public shaming is never the way to deal with students' behavior problems.
It's the kind of thing some Republicans would do, if they percieve the victim to be liberal.
Death on the street is the Republican solution for special needs kids.
Goodf!
Great job, JD!
Megaera needs to have a good talk with this elementary school teacher about talking some courses on how to prevent and handle bullying in schools. If little Diego was indeed a bully or turning into one, a school and its teachers should do something about it, but this is very unprofessional and way over the top, resulting in exactly the opposite: ganging up on one kid. If the school had handled it better and taken the parent's complaints serious, things might have ended just there. But suing has gotten way out of hand in America and I'm afraid none of the furies can do anything about that; not with a not-the-popular-vote-but-inaugurated-anyway President whose middle name is "I'm going to sue you" and who'll proudly retain that nickname after the 20th.
The burning of Mr Wickes in his store is a gruesome act of hatred. It was well thought out and very deliberate and the perpetrator took great care to keep his or her identity and gender hidden. But it was very personal act, not random at all, and expressed a great rage against Mr. Wickes. Police will be looking very hard at the rain suit they found for DNA traces, even if they can only tell them if it is a man or a woman of what ethnic background they're dealing with. Tisiphony won't be able to do much until more evidence is found.
Alecto's task tempted me to get the old "Only in Texas" adage out, but that's probably not true. Unfortunately cases like these most likely are to be found in other states too, but Texas always seems to do so much worse than the rest of the country. Only a few weeks ago I suggested that the Furies made their base in that state because so many of your stories stemmed from there, Joanne. What could possibly be the reason for this general neglect of human values here? Other states have Republican governments and governors, so that can't be the sole reason for this clustering of nastiness, can it. Must be a soil/air/water contamination of some sort. Perhaps the Furies need to look into that before going onto the more personal cases.
Kudos to the people of NC, the "average Joes' who protest against the coup of their Republican majority government against their newly elected Democratic governor. This is the way to do it: consistently and persistently RESIST!
Just want you to know that I do read your Everyday Erinyes posts.
Can’t say that I “enjoy” them – but they’re not designed to be enjoyed.
I admire your intestinal fortitude in doing them, but too often they’re just too depressing for me to comment. But I appreciate your posting them!
Thank you.